In this article, we are going to give you some Valentine's Day dating tips and things to do for singles.

Single doesn't necessarily mean alone. If you're like me you have many suitors but, you're needed seclusion in order to evolve. Now that you're a butterfly you are dipping your toes back in the dating pool.

My birthday is right after Valentine's Day so I never much cared about V-day more so my B-day! However this year I decided to do something different. I wanted to see what to do as a single on February 14th so this is what I came up with

Happy Valentines

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As you see New York City has a ton of Singles Events to attend from paint and sips to singles cruises. So, always check your local events for singles throughout the year. I personally recommend finding events on Eventbrite and Groupon.  These 2 are lifesavers in many ways. I will do future posts on how I use them. 

2. Pamper yourself have a Spa Day

What better way to celebrate Valentine's day than at the spa? There's nothing like a nice relaxing massage and a calming facial Better yet call up your single "gal friends" and make it a Galentine Day spa Day! I personally go to the spa every year not per se for Valentine, but for my Birthday which is 2 days later. 

However when in a relationship. I do a couples spa but, we are not talking about couples in this post. When I plan my spa day I make it a day. I specifically search for a full spa package that includes everything. facial, massage, manicure, and pedicure. I also love a body scrub and mask as well if possible your skin will thank you! Some spa packages include hairstyle (I usually forfeit the hair) the price varies from about $150 to $350 these are great it usually comes with lunch, a glass of wine, or some refreshment. 

For a great deal, I recommend Groupon.

3.Galentine's Day!

 Again single doesn't mean alone. Some people say F@$% Valentine's Day! Many single women focus on the term Galentine's Day.

 What is Galentine's Day?

Well, I'm glad you asked. The term Galentines's day was created by single women who still want to celebrate and show love to each other. 

Single women get together and like I said have a spa day, dinner date, Paint & Sip, or a Girls Night Out.

At this point, it sounds like an ad or sponsored post But again check out Groupon and or also check Living Social.

4. Weekend Getaway!

5. Body Reshaping

Ok! If you're single on Vday, I mean you can possibly use some improvement, So again, instead of a nip tuck, go get some non-invasive solutions. Nowadays you can go and do butt injections for about 1250 to 15000 or a vacuum butt lift for $500 and breast lift and enlargement for about $700. Try Face Gym for a Facelift for approximately $250.  Cellulite and stretchmark/scar removal. Fillers for your nose, Sonobella for fat removal. etc

About 5 years ago when I lived in Vegas I went to get a manicure at this spa near my apartment and there was a girl sitting next to me as I was reading the menu/brochure and I saw the vacuum breast augmentation. I noticed how gorgeous her breast was and I said: "excuse me I don't mean to be rude but your boobs are perf! are they real?"

she said yes, I got them done here she was like a DD or Gcup she said she was a B cup when she started she said she just had 6  or 7 treatments for like $600-$700. I was amazed. I asked if I could feel them of course. 

So there are many alternatives to Plastic or invasive surgery. I will do a more detailed future post on this. Again Groupon and Living Social. 

 

BONUS IDEA:

There is no love like self love the best love you can ever give and receive. there are many ways to show yourself self-love. V-day is a great day to express this love. Rather you decide to go it alone and hit up a Singles event or take yourself on a spa day or a solo date.

Dress up, put on your most sensual perfume., pull your hair up or let your hair down, beat your face to the GAWDS. Then take yourself out to dinner and maybe even a movie.

 Or if you prefer to have a night in-home spa treatment followed by a Netflix and Chill night at home with put on some lingerie or your favorite pajama's pour do a facial pour yourself a glass of wine or cognac for the fellas and put on a movie, show or curl up with your favorite book!

If you would like to see a post on how to do a home spa day comment "Home Spa" below!